Dr. C.J. Henius
You can contact C.J. Henius, P.O. Box 4288, Cave Creek, Az 85327. 480-595-1969 or drcj@emotionalhealer.com
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Dr. C.J. Henius is an emotional healer and has been described as a motivating teacher, and integrative healer. If you consider your life like a puzzle she's the teacher that can help you put it together so the desired epiphany can be experienced. She’s developed her healing abilities from the age of 4 1/2 years old. Clients come to her when they are at a point in their life where a repeating challenge gets their attention and they are ready for change.
When someone is running up against a wall or an emotional block she is able to use her intuitive brain and relay to the person what energy or thought forms she senses in their emotional field. Once she reveals what she has uncovered, the energy dissipates. Healing starts in the emotional field and frequently you will hear her say "What is revealed is healed." Dr. C.J. Henius is the founder of HealFromPrayer.org, director Godhearsus.com and also offers workshops on emotional healing to many all over the world. Meet this energized emotional healer on the Margaret Wendt show.
- God Heard The Need
- Time To Connect With Like Minds
- I Want Your Help, I’m An Atheist
- Neediness
- Detach From Rescuing
- You Feel Their Pain
- Verbal Abuse Hurts
- Face The Music
- Look In My Eyes
- Speaking From Experience
- Learn about Boundaries
- Narcissistic Behavior Is Increasing
- Children Skipping Childhood
- Pass The Buck
- Me Controlling
- Patience is a Virtue
- I Forgot To Accept The Things I Can Not Change
- What Does Cutting Back On Expenses Mean To You?
- Who Has Time To Read?
- Responsibility Came From Being Told No
- Do I Remember Differently Than Another Does?
- Private Space Is Healing
- Compliments Do You Get Enough Of Them?
- Being Frugal and Benefiting
- You Lose Out When You Judge a Book by Its Cover
- Is Your Community Antisocial?
- Re-wounding
- Is A Shift Needed in Parenting Values?
- Too Much Of A Good Thing....Is It Really Wonderful?
- What Is A Distraction?
- Keeping a Tally Sheet
- Mirror Mirror On The Wall
- You Make The Choice I Don't Care
Do I Remember Differently Than Another Does? - May 24, 2009
A few months ago I was looking through some old pictures and I came across a photo of myself taken 16 years ago. I mentally traveled backward in time as I remembered how I felt and what was happening in my life back then. In recalling the past it seemed like a movie playing in my head. I was enjoying my waltz down memory lane when I got the idea to keep out a few pictures from my photo box of my sister and myself when we were adolescents. I thought we both could go down memory lane together with her upcoming visit.
A few days after my sister arrival, we starting discussing childhood incidents and I noticed when my memories were different then hers. At first I thought we had conflicting memories because I was four years older, thinking my memories were different because my view of life would have been different. Then I thought because we were so young we had an immature sense of the world so how accurate could our memories of been. So I asked God to direct me so I could let go of my need to voice conflicting memories with family members.
I then went into my office and as I sat in my chair it bumped against a book shelf, a book became dislodged and made me curious about looking in this book. Next thing I know I’m reading the opened page of “Post Traumatic Disorder for Dummies” and the title was on false memories! I thought to myself “oh there are no mistakes here!” Eagerly I read about distortion of memory and Confabulation. Confabulation is a false memory appearing real to the person having the memory. Once I discovered an injury can be a cause for Confabulation, I had my missing piece. And that’s what made me remember my sister taking a number of hard knocks to the head as a young child.
From that moment on I decided it doesn’t really matter if our memories are different, what matters is we support them and allow them their truth without making them wrong. To refrain from discounting another’s memories is the loving thing to do. My sister wasn’t fabricating, it wasn’t selective memory either. My sister had her memories; she believed hers just like I believed mine. Yes, live and let live became my motto that day and I received a healing from my memory surfacing! Thank You God for hearing my request!